A Twin Flame Dynamic Through My Eyes

From my perspective, this journey is the most rewarding and fulfilling one a person could travel on. The twin-flame dynamic is in our lives to open our eyes up to ourselves. When we meet our twin, this person shines a light inside of our own selves. What we are meant to learn? Mostly self-love, self-respect, growth, and the opportunity of a lifetime to treat ourselves they way we've always wanted someone else to treat us, but never had that chance. This person, your twin, they awaken you to your soul. They awaken you to be the best version of yourself you'd ever been. The twin-flame dynamic through my eyes, has shown me what it means to love myself. This person, your twin, may not be awakened to your level, if any level at all. If they aren't, you may question this meeting. Why did I meet them? What was the point? Why do people always leave me? Why did they ghost? Why did they run? This is normal. Eventually we stop asking ourselves why this situation didn't work out either. It's not that this isn't going to work out, there is such a thing as divine timing, and patience is what we must learn to accept while on this journey.

The twin-flame journey is an alignment relationship, through my eyes. Twin-flames are one soul that split into two before incarnating on Earth. What we do is go through each life, finding each other and learning through our mistakes, until we come to the last life. In this last life, what we do, is awaken to what this connection is. We surrender ourselves and the outcome of this union to the Universe, or God. We are to become the best version of ourselves we could ever create. This person, your twin, they are here to awaken you to your truest authentic self. What this means, is you will continue to live your best life, for you, no matter if they are in the picture or not. You are not with this person only to be better while they are in your life. You will want to continue to fulfill your best life, not knowing whether or not they are going to be in your picture.

The twin-flame journey is a beautiful one. No, it's no perfect. Nor would it be perfect if union is meant for you in this life. Your twin, as a 3-d human, will never physically harm you, nor would they, should union ever take place, would this person cheat. This person is your mirrored soul. This person would treat you how they'd want to be treated. An un-awakened version of yourself may run from the depth's of this relationship out of being afraid, but ask yourself, would you ever hurt yourself physically? Would you ever cheat on yourself? This is what it means to be a twin through my perspective. Even if this person is un-awakened, deep down there is an undeniable feeling in their soul that recognizes you and your spirit. This journey is a blessing. Many questions may come along the way, and sometimes, maybe they can be answered, other times, maybe not. Divine timing is always at play. You may be awakened and this person is not. It doesn't mean you shouldn't keep living your own life. Patience for this union is one of the biggest factors. In order to heal the dynamic, you have to be healed yourself. Where do your insecurities lie? What are you afraid of? Why do you think this person is afraid to be with you? Make a list.... start writing down your own insecurities. What I've learned is that we have to continue to heal these areas of life that we don't even think about until a game changer walks in and steals our heart right from our chest. Insecurities play a really big part on this journey. Usually it's our own. Sometimes people may even give up on this journey because it's "too hard" to compete with this version of love.

Really it's all a matter of perspective. If you want this union, you will continue to fight for yourself first and foremost. Forgive yourself of anything that strikes negative from the past. Forgive yourself for your own insecurities and know that these are minor, and don't serve you for becoming a better version of "you".. Insecurities are usually just the ego talking to us, the 3-d aspects of life that we need to let go of. Forgiving everyone in the past that's ever made us feel low, no good, fat, ugly, or whorish. Anything and everything. It's not just those feelings, it acts of violence, trauma, abuse, and neglect. Who do we need to forgive, and why? Have you taken that inventory? Start writing this down, and start releasing. By releasing, you are not obligated to verbalize any apology to no one. This is something done within yourself. Between you and God. Between you and the Universe. Do not seek any remorse from anyone. Just forgive each and every situation within yourself. Those that have transpired in your past, those that hold no reign on your future. Once we start deep diving into this healing, things start coming along far more faster, real, and positive than we could've ever imagined. Once we start releasing these trauma's, and letting go, forgiving, loving, and healing, we start to transform our own lives. By healing yourself you are healing your twin, no matter how much time and space in between you two. Always remember that this twin, should be thought of in love and light. Ask for healing for them, while you are asking for healing for yourself. Remember our thoughts, even those thoughts, create karma. Heal in kindness, and love.

The twin-flame dynamic is a very special journey. Not every soul here on Earth will get to take a part in this union. Why? Because most people do not heal they way they should heal. Most people lose patience, most people give up, may even revert back to being 3-d. Maybe not. What I see through my eyes, is that the twin journey is one that comes together out of pure harmony, bliss and joy. One that is based on unconditional love. This union takes place when we completely strip ourselves of ego. Ego, judgements, negativity. This is a union that takes time. We can't force something so beautiful in our lives, when we aren't prepared for it. What happens, is recognition takes place, but we will be split. We are split because the Universe, God, wants to heal, so that this divine union can start the mission it is meant for, in this lifetime. What's the point of this union? It's to be healers for other people in the world. To spread your joy, your higher vibrations, your intensity for love to all of humanity. Your soul knows what the mission is, but do you?

In this last lifetime, you and your twin will come together to raise the vibration of humanity through the undeniable, and unconditional love you two have for one another.. Alignment happens when we release control, when we release the past, when we release the wounds. This alignment is so special, it truly takes two soul that are ready to ascend. If we are living with 3-d insecurities of life, we are not ready. If we are judging others, ourselves, having negative thoughts, or self doubts, or worries, we are not ready. We are only truly ready when we embody peace within ourselves. You know what you want with this journey, this twin, this person? Are you presenting that to the Universe? To God? Are you teeter-tottering? Are you going back and forth? You want it? But you don't? But you do? Be clear, speak to God, speak to the universe. Ask for help when you need help, no matter what stage of this journey you are on.

It's not easy, but believe in Magick. Believe in Divine Timing. Believe in your twin, your person. Believe in love, believe in healing and forgiving. Believe in being open minded. Believe in karma, and balance, and justice. Believe that what is yours, cannot be taken away from you. Believe that what is yours, will return to you. Believe that there is a greater force working within all of us, but really just believe in yourself.

I love you.

-Becki Bane